Harassment / torture by my wife for 6.5 years and harassment by in-laws

Hi Respected Lawers , My Humble details : I am married 6.5 years back through Jeevan sathi website to a Patna girl from Bihar city ..i belong to kayastha family of Hyderabad and reputed family of Doctors /Engineers This lady is constantly taunting me and abusing my Parents with their names that Tera Baap mar gaya kya etc Teri Maa Randi thi etc which is completely (where as my Father stays in Hyderabad city and since marriage he never visited my premises which are in Pune ,My Mother was completely Religeous and Pous Lady who left for heaven in 2014 due to prolong illness ) this lady takes 5 k every month from my Salary and asks me to depost Rs 40k in her elder brother's account (since he has helped me in difficult times for my preveous loans by providing approx 4.7 laksh) Now i am left with sometimes only 1500 to manage whole month for communiting to office but she doesn't care a hoot All most all the months of the year either her Father (80 years old ) /Her elder sister (divorcess ) and her elder brothers /Mama's etc would be visiting my premises and statying here She is completely Non veg and uses all foul words full of filth and does't respect my parents and she hardly makes any call to my parents in the whole one year ( in the last 6.5 years of my marriage ) she never tried to call my parents to my premises for any dinner etc We have not taken any DOWRY from this family and her father gave Gold ornaments worth 3 lakhs which are lying in the ICICI locker in hyderabad and i did not get an opportunity to see what was given She is alwasy going to neighbours house on some pretext or other and forces parties with neighbour ladies and drinks wine and comes late in night She BEATS me and my Daughter ( 5years girl ) mircilessly almost every week or every alternate day Always using Choicest of abuses against me and my daughter She threatens me that if i give police comlaint then she will consume poison along with my two daugthers ( 1 year and 5 year ) in the last 6 years of my stay with her ..She has beaten my Daugher many times and on 5 occasions i have slapped her on her cheek and she returned the slap with atleast 10 slaps in return and used all kind of abuses /unparliamentary words against me and my parents further she ran away from the premises after this incidents to unknown locations and she came back after i called her and pleaded her to forgive me for no fault of mine Recently on a tiff -when she was mercilessly beating my dauther (5 years girl ) i interferred and i have stopped her -she started mercilessly beating me and beaten my for altlest 20 times with her Chappl after this i tried to ran away from premises and brint neighbour into the flat for pacifying her but she pulled me back and again attacked me mercilessly and then i punched her on the forehead to stop her gundagardi but the ring in my ring finger hit her above the left eye brow and she started bleeing then i took her to the nearest hospital