mentally torture

Sir. I am from jrajsthan.jodhpur rajsthan. I am private teacher. I got married on november 2013. Arrange merriage. but sir after I suffered many problems. merI wife kisi ki sunti naI na to sasural walo ki na apne gharwalo ki...jnjb bhi wo apne ghar jati hai..wapas aane se mna kr deti hai..uske bad waha jakar jhgade krti h bahot chhoti chhti bat pr last time uske aisa krne pr uske uncle ne bahot muskil se samjhakar wapas sasural bheja.. wo kisi ka kahna nai ...infact wo court me case krne ki bhi dhamki deti hai..humari taraf se use kisi bhi bat ke liye preshan nai kiya ja rha lekin use lapna ghar hi achha lgta hai...waha jakr wo apni man mani krti hai...or Ph. Calls sab band kr deti hai..uske marji me aaye wo bolti hai..bade chhote kisi ka lihaz nai krti hai...pati ko kuch nai samjhti...bahot preshan kr ke rkha h...hum chahte h wo sasural rhe lekin wo 2 mahine yaha rhti h or 4 mahine waha rehti jayada kahne pr suicide ki dhamki deti hum to sidhe middel class femily se belong krte muje nai samjh aa rha ki muje kya krna chahiye..pls advise me sir