498a private complaint

1) wife had filed private 498a complaint at Jun 2017 at UP, JMFCourt and also DV case in same court. 2) i have filed RCR in Mumbai of which in 2nd counselling round she had finalize to join Matrimonial house from March 2018. from there she resided with me. in the time being she was asked by Mumbai court to close the cases which has kept open if she continue to stay with me but she always claim she will close it but it was never followed. 3) in Oct 2018 in my RCR case we had Lok Adalat bench mine case was listed in it there consenterm had been signed that she will withdraw cases 498a and dv before next hearing i.e 2 feb 19. when i took her to village she deny their with her family and other neighbourhood tried to create voilent situation. after returning from there to mumbai on Jan 16, 2019 she left matrimonial home and went to village. 4) now we have got summn of 498a which is in hindi stating order " abhiyuktan we all 6 people, ko talab kiya jata hi 2 may 2019" with that order certified copy and lokadalat copy we went to Lucknow hc for procedding stay. on 30 april, 2019 we got the stay order. which we when tried to attached on JMFC Court but their lawyer use to say it is of no value, u(6 people) all have to take bail. else they will issue BW which is been issued now i guess.. (Que... will i get the summon for BW also at my mumbai address I have already got summon for 2 may 2019 on 29 april 2019 which is so much late) 5) I wanted to know what is the proceeding for private complaint 498a. ( Crpc 200, 202, 204) is all done from there end some of them knoweldge i do have but still i am not properly aware of all. 6) i have applied for withdrwal of RCR now from my mumbai court, but they have given me next date now. what are the stages going to be come while doing withdrawl now.