To get my child

Hi sir.. Myself is anupama mine is love marrage to be frank we dint get married either in temple or in church just its an living relation ship since 2010 had a baby now he is 9years old.. We were der in UK till his 3rd year but wen we came back from UK i have started facing issues from my inlaws and sister inlaw suddenly my husband started beleving them and ignoring me and mainly they started sperating my baby with me abusing, beati g stated harrasing like anything i asaked them that will go off with my baby but they dint allow the baby to send with me finally one day could able to bare their harrasment though of going lil far and earning mny and send them so atleast they change cos they all are mny minded aven they wont allow my parents to talk to me if they wont offerd mny regularly... Its being 3years that i came out of that house but every mnth i will be going their and for my kid i only pay the fee cloths and things watever he needs they are well settled but for kid they are asking me to spend as my hus is sitting at home since5years... Conditionally they are using me if they get anhry or if i dont send mny they wont allow me to talk to my son... And morover my husband starteddouting me on each and evry one and even in chatting also unbearable words he use how many days i should wait for them to realise... M missing my son meanwhile please i dont want to give devorce i want my son i dont want any single penni from thier property i can take care of my son i have to get my baby tell me solution...