Divorce matter (my mail id :-mvrk75@gmail.com)

Hello Sir/Madam, Need advice and directions on the matter of divorce with my wife , some brief facts are : 1.I have some MF investments and a plot registered in my wifes name all my gold and silver are in her possession along with all the reciepts. 2. Fatherinlaw had registered a flat in both our names vide gift deed and i am in postion currently . 3.We have one minor child whom she has taken along with her 4.Wife wants a huge security deposit for the childs education with her name as guardian instead of mine and register the flat in her name (also vacate flat immediately). She says she shall not press for alimony then.if i dont vacate the flat immediately she shall press dowry harassment charges against me .we have been living seperately for near 7-8 months. 5.Currently i am jobless and have health related issues not permitting me to work.my stance has been that she can take her flat and return whats mine.I shall bear the child education expenses but cannot pay in bulk in a single go now. My queries : 1. can i have my daughter back ?? 2. can i vacate the flat as she wants to give it for rent for her immediate needs and deal with the transfer of name at a later stage . 3. please suggest a course of action/steps to be taken to separate on mutual consent basis