Feeling helpless

I have a DV case going on for 6 years in Mayo hall Bangalore. He has been asked to take care of the children's education but so far only done that for the younger one. There too not everything. Elder one not a Paise has been paid by him despite all receipts submitted in the court. Now for the last 6 months or more the case is at a standstill for the court to pass orders for re-cross examination! I don't understand the delay for passing orders! There is a case for arrears of maintenance in family court. He is absconding since March 2018. Has committed some fraud in kochi too is what we were told by the kochi police and so in hiding. How do I proceed? I feel helpless and no one seems to be giving the right advice or suggestion. There is a dowry harassment filed too. But I filed a domestic violence case with the police. Don't understand how it became a dowry harassment when it reached the courts. There are 2 NBW issued, family and magistrate court. But the local police are not bothered. Family court this time I followed it up till the local police station in kochi and there got to know about the fraud. Feel helpless. Would it make sense to transfer this case to kochi?