Wife, her parents greedy about money, property of mine. want luxurious life style only.

Hi Lawyers, I got married in the May-2018, Initially everything was going good. The issues happened when I found that her parents are interfering in our life. Instances are like, -Over call ask her to live separate if possible. -Taking her salary for self use. Wife was also in favor that 'Why I can't give to my parents' -Given ornaments to her parents without knowing me. -Shopping for her parents without knowing me. -Taking to them(including sister, brother etc) to long trip without knowing me. All such things we came to know when we found bills or other evidences. She also directly denied to show me her account statement which can clear her salary. Now when this issue spaded across our community, we came know that, that family is greedy about money and luxurious life style. When same concern raised to her parents, they also made non sense comments like 'I haven't made my daughter MBA holder to wash dish in house', 'She lived with eating Kajoo,Badam', 'whats wrong if she expending money on us' etc. Concerns they have is 'my daughter should get luxurious life style and she should do job, else we won't let her to live with you', its 4 months that we are separated. Her facts, MBA holder, Earlier was earning 10K, now living with parents in village. Parents are well settled. My facts, Engineer, Living with dependent parents, handicapped father - hip joint replacement happened, father is affected by eye failure recently so are under treatment, mother is single kidney survival, loan of house.