Seeking Divorce from wife..

I was married on 02/12/2015 and having 1 baby girl aged about 2 years now. My wife is working as clerk in a PSB(Indian Bank) and posted at her native place purnia, Bihar and residing with their parents. We are having disputes and differences since marriage. I am working as Sr. Manager in a PSB(Allahabad Bank) and posted far from her at Azamgarh, UP since marriage. Previously., i used to go wife's place occasionally on holiday. We were quarrelling every day on a petty issue. She is blaming me always for the bad relationship. She doesn't value me or my parents. She quarrels with my parents, brother and sister also whenever they talked to her. Since last 6 month we are not in contact even on phone calls. I don't want to talk to her because of her insane & inhumane behavior with us. She is talking like a mad vocal person. All her earnings goes to her parents who also want us to live separately due to greedy of income of her daughter. Wife doesn't come to my parents' home or at my place of posting to look after me even on long holiday. She always says there is no relationship b/w us by heart except only name as husband and licensed as married women. She is forcing me take divorce. She wants me to initiate divorce proceedings but she herself refuses to initiate divorce because of taking more alimony and maintenance support as i think. Kindly guide, what steps to be taken if don't want to be divorced and if divorce process take place, how to initiate such process legally.