Mother in law

I did a court marriage 4 years back in the presence of my MIL. And 2 years back socially married for public. There are 5 members in my family MIL, Brother in law and his wife, me and my husband(we are elder). My family stay in pune in my MIL house and I stay in mumbai for my work purpose in a rented flat. I work in film industry as a background dancer. My question is that , should I contribute my income in family forcefully? Actually my MIL says its my responsibility to contribute money. Like my work is seasonal and I give money as m comfortable but indirectly she doesn't like. She expects money in hand monthly and also expects that I should gift her something as a real daughter and i do that for her. She doesn't say this but her action indicates that. And if we say this then she says that I didn't ask for it, it was ur wish. And even she doesn't allow us to stay apart and my husband takes his mother side even if she's wrong. Now my relation is good but i adjust thats why its good. If i spoil my relation with her then my relation with my husband will get spoiled. But in some case i will not be able to adjust in future. Now my MIL took new house in her own name But I contributed approx 40% in that house but I dont have any legal paper work to prove that because i cant say that directly otherwise my relationship with her and my husband will get spoiled. Even my husband believe that its my responsibility to give money. I dont take a single rupee for my servival from them But yes i took some help in between from MIL for setting my self for this job but i returned that money to her. And if i stay more then 10 days with family she gets insequired and she say me to message my coordinators for work and she says its for your good. I agree i earn highest in my family and my husband earns less. But he spends good for himself (he has iphone and a branded bike) and give 10000 monthly to her mom as responsebility. I dont have any problem with his personal issues But I expect just to not take money from me indirect forcefully. And ya if family needs as help then I m always forward for them. Can any one guide me what can i do in this situation?