CrPC 41a filed against me on 498a, 406, 506. Need guidance from experts.

Hi Esteemed Advocates, I got in touch with a girl through matrimonial site and started chatting with her. I fell in love with her after a few days. We were living in two cities so meeting was very infrequent. She was very manipulative and constantly provoked me against my parents and I grew distant from my parents. She asked me to move to her city, then she will marry me. I quit and moved to her city and got a job. But we started having problems, she had anger issues and before I could get a grip of reality, her parents forced me for court marriage, or she would not be able to see me again. I was totally broken and decided to go for court marriage. They also mentioned that they will have a proper marriage once the court marriage is done so that their fears that I will leave are abated. Once the court marriage was done, I began seeing the real side of ther girl. She began hurting me physically and mentally. She broke my spects, laptops, mobiles. I used to take a lot of beatings and after a point my patience used to give in. I started to walk out of fights and keep quiet and she only grew in intensity further and further. I had no other choice but to protect myself and control her physically. Either by pinning down, or an occasional slap. Otherwise she would go on a rampage and breaking stuff. This was very often in a relationship. She began demanding that I separate from my family and my brother was not allowed to meet me even when he was living in the same city. After almost 8 months, when I did not listen to her and began inviting my brother to the house, she fought with me and left the house. She began claiming, I have hit her very badly. I kept asking her to come back but she blocked me everywhere and didnt reply anywhere. She has filed a 498a, 406, 506, 3/4 DP against me from her hometown even though we are living in a different city on me and my family. My family has not been in touch with her for over 10 months. I need legal help to protect me and my family.