Anulment/divorce

I want to save my marraige. I had pcod before marraige but as I had regular periods and it did not effect me in any way(so did not take any medicine as it is aimed at regularising periods which was not my case and no hormonal imbalance was found) we proceeded with the marraige, did not get a chance of telling directly (as it is better directly rather on phone)as both of us were working and guy did not show interest. During/After marraige due to the stress of a new home, new job, joint family((not mother inlaw or father in law) ,brother in law, his wife and her family(they stay in next house) mother, father, brother and his wife), inlaw home 3 hrs one way travel in bus to office and taking care of house hold works i had hormonal imbalance and had hirsutism issue.. Husband found out and did not consummate marriage. Now he says we cheated and is not allowing me to his home even after multiple trials from my family asking him take me to a doctor of his choice and find out how my condition is. I am earning well can take care of all the expenses. (I am taking laser and its working) can you advice how I can procede