Wife Living separately,not coming back and not giving divorce also

I got married in 2015. We had a love marriage. I am from Mumbai.My wife was working in Bangalore when we got married. Before we got married,i clearly told my wife that we are going to stay with my family in Mumbai after marriage. My Wife native is a small town in Madhya Pradesh near Bhopal. After marriage, when i asked my wife to come to Mumbai and to stay with me and family, she hesitated initially but then came after a year. Before that, sometimes i visited Bangalore and sometimes she was coming to Mumbai. After she came to Mumbai, she started complaining about small small things and she started complaining about my mother. My mother is having high Blood pressure, she cant even talk properly with someone in a high pitch. My wife never took care of her illness in my absence and started fighting with me too. After staying for like 3 months she packed all her belongings and called her parents to take her with them.Her parents came and took her saying that they want to attend 2-3 marriages at native. When after a month they didn't reply, we called many times to them. They said that she cant come back to your place because she is having problems with your mother. We tried to call/messages them to sort out the things and every time thy said that she cant come. After few months, i found out that she is working in Mumbai only and she never informed us. I asked her to meet and she agreed. When we met, i clearly told her that she has to come at my place and we can sort out the things amicably. But she started yelling and our conversation went out without any solution. After few months, i consulted a lawyer at my native place (Meerut) and he advised me to send a notice (Section 13-B). We sent a notice and they replied it saying that she was mentally tortured by my mother and was asked to get dowry also. She never turned up in any of the mediation hearings and she came on the last mediation with her lawyer to change the hearing city from Meerut to Mumbai. My lawyer didn't let that happen and asked for re-mediation as she came there for the first time. The judge took the mediation herself, told her that she can not ask me to leave my parents and gave us time for a month to come to a mutual conclusion. I again called her but she is telling that i can not come over at your place and neither i will give divorce. Please advice me what to do. I am very disturbed. I don't want to stay with her now because of the trust issues and want to end this soon.