Proclamtion Order Notice or Summons

I am a NRI living abroad and my wife filed 498A on me and my family. Though I have sent all the paperwork to my wife before marriage to complete the requirement of visa and join me in abroad, she never responded back to Immigration advisor and me. The IO officer appeared in trial court and informs the judge that all dowry articles were recovered except cloths and ask for remand of my mom. However judge gave bail to my mother and ask both parties to sort out matter since My wife and her family did not agreed to close the matter on 5 lacs. They demanded a hefty sum of money 20-25 lacs. Within 7 days of this bail, IO appears to another judge and within 2 month I was declared Proclaimed offender. I simply can’t understand how I was declared proclaimed offender when I was never issued with any summons at my abroad address and also at my Indian address. A person can only appear when he was informed.......FIR was also registered when I was in abroad .... As per PO order, 30 days was lapsed and I was Declared PO. My father filed RTI with police department to give all paperwork, notice issued under the FIR but police simply refuse to give the papers. In the mean time my divorce is finalized and my ex wife has received the entire compensation as well. What can be the next step we should take? Can po or FIR Can be quashed since divorce is finalised ...... How can I get PO notice or summons ..bcoz police simply refuse to give us . The fact is that police never serve a summon as my abroad address and how can they declare me as PO without informing me. Please advise..........