Mental, physical & sexual harrassment by husband.

I am 26yr aged house wife with 3yrs baby girl. It is 3 1/2 yrs after married a central govt employee aged 32yr now. We both are Engg. Graduates. Mental harrassment at night upto 3'o clock at times with argument on any one topic & abuses me and others including my parents. Blames me based on his mother's words. When we go outside, he doubts on others for illegal if any and shout at me. He never accepts to follow my opinion/explanation in anything. Sacrifices money & quality of item/work/tour to fulfill his ego. Forced to have child and got pregnency in first month of marriage. He expresses that he is only correct always but not anybody. In anger he losses control, breaks chairs,mobile etc. even with elders. It was happend 4 to 5 times with me and at times in site works. During these times, he threatens that he will commit suicide duly specify my name in suicide note. He always threatens me even overphone. Abused my parents after their pursue first time recently. Same night he pretended to attempt suicide and at last beaten me after they left. He never obey good words of elders inc parents. His parents were prayed to come here to talk and resolve this issue, but no action. Even on several requests, he including his parents don't accept to take medical treatment/family coucelling. At present I am with my husband. My husband is a very nice person and I want him without his drawbacks. What I have to do? Guide me please.