Divorce

I, my name is Raju, I filled for judicial separation in Delhi. I tried to a lot with my family to convince my wife to come at home. But she doesn't understand it and response. She wants divorce and even I want too but they demand unnecessary money for mutual consent. My lawyer advised to file judicial separation which I did. Her father has given x amount transfer into my account at the time of marriage which was for marriage expenses. Now they are saying they have dowry which is not true. Here I m trapped I know they have the proof the bank statement. I also had a chat with my wife stated that I will give the amount what ever they have given..but they demanding 4 times more amount they have given which I can't give . I fear of 498 a . My lawyer suggested , nothing will happen. We can get bail immidiately. But I don't want such situations. Pls suggest how this can be resolved. My marriage happened in Nov 2016. Also want to know ...if they can file for divorce in Jaipur which judicial separation already file in Delhi. Can I file for divorce once the judicial separation passed without waiting one year ?