Not getting Ex-Parte divorce after several hearings

I married a girl 9 yrs back. From the very beginning she used to maintain distance from me. Initially i thought its normal but gradually after 3 years i got to know that she was previously married and had a daughter from the first marriage which she never told us. But when i came to know about it she and and her family started torching me and my family. Any how i managed to leave my place and shifted somewhere else but she occupied the place took over all the assets and started living with her daughter. I then filed a divorce two years back and sent 3 summons to her but she didn't came and not even replied then court ordered to publish in a newsppr and send her a copy bt then too she didn't turn up. Now in Jan 2017 court passed ex-parte order but gave me a date of June 2017 for submitting the ex parte evidence. I want to know how many steps are still pending to get the final divorce and how much time it will take. And if i wish to re marry should it be counted three months from the date of ex- parte order (i.e. Jan 2017) or only after receiving the final decree(which i really do not know when). Please advice.