Divorce applied

I got married in 5-5-2013 but after one year my wife went to parent home on 12aug2014 and refused to come back, after many visit and phone calls she did not agreed to resume with me nor her parent shown any interest to send her back to me, then after in sep-2014 her brother came to our home by saying that my sister is pregnant and we do not want to have that baby and need your sign on the certificate so that Docter would move to the process of abortion, I clearly denied for the signature, then on March 31 2015 I blessed with baby boy then again I visited there and ask for the return home but she denied to come back, As Me and my wife staying depart from two and a half year I loged the divorce file in Saket family court in feb2016, In first 4 hearing she did not appear in court and after knowing that I filed for divorce she logged 198-A and other charges on me and my family and also logged maintainance case in utterakhand court, in last appearance in Delhi Saket court she also loged ipc24 on me, It's becoming very painful as I need to keep roam on scheduled dates in court of Uttrakhand and Delhi, In counseling she is not willing to give divorce and now keep claiming to be stay together where before she clearly denied to stay together, but now I don't want her be with me as I afraid if she will do some thing latter then what I'll do as Iam staying with my mom (72year old) and brother who's physicaly disable by 80percent and I can't leave then in any cost. Please sugest what to do on this case as lowyers also charging huge fees for every appearance,