No justice for women

I have a 3year old daughter and I am living with my parents since October 2014. My mother in law kicked me out of their house and since then I am living with my parents. My husband filed for divorce last year in October 2015. The case has come to the Family Court in June and since then no order has been passed. My husband has shown no interest in our child since date of separation since October 2014. Now he has filed for access for christmas and a cousins wedding and wants our daughter to live with him and his parents for 2 weeks during the Christmas season. The judge is forcing me to take our daughter to Hyderabad(my husbands place of residence) and stay in an hotel so that my husband and his family can meet the child and take her to their home for meals etc. My husband has not given us any monetary support since the date of separation.My parents have been supporting us for the last two years and paying for her education, medical bills, food and clothing. I am not working either as my husband forced me to give up my studies. So how can he demand that I take her to Hyderabad to spend time with him and his family without having supported us or shown any interest in the last 2 years? What can I do to prevent the judge from passing an order to prevent this from happening?